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Below are signs that your partner is unfaithful to you. But do not jump to a conclusion without having some concrete proof with you.
1. He Is Suddenly Conscious Of His Looks:
Under normal circumstances, you would feel great if your husband begins to take care of his looks, and is well-groomed. Watch out, as they could also be the first signs of an extra-marital affair.
Your husband will be eager to look good and change his dressing style and looks. He will start buying new clothes and spend more time in front of the mirror.
He gets health conscious and works towards a fitter and healthier body. If you think that he was never into exercising or trying out those squats, you will be surprised at how much time and dedication he now seems to put in his workout efforts.
If you notice that your husband is dressing sharper and better for work, maybe there is a new colleague in office that he is trying to impress. Or, if he is suddenly working out crazy hours at the gym, chances are he is trying to get in better shape for a new love interest who is most likely younger in age, and thus has a more toned and fitter body. It is also possible that he is trying to impress someone who he met at the gym.
You may notice that your husband is working on changing the way he looks. He could get a new hair style or color his hair, something he may not have tried earlier. He could play around with his facial hair, growing or trimming a moustache or beard or giving it a new style, or maybe turn clean shaven. He could also change the way he smells by trying out new fragrances.
2. He Seems To Be Drifting Away Emotionally:
When your husband appears to drift apart from you on an emotional level, it is often one of the first signs that he is having an affair. He will find it difficult to invest his time and emotions on two persons, and therefore, you will be taking a backseat in his life. You will notice that the emotional connect c that you shared earlier is now missing, as your husband will probably share most of it with the third person.
It is also possible that your partner is guilty about cheating on you. He is probably avoiding the guilty by cutting down that emotional connect with you.
The other bigger reason that your husband will try to stay away from you on an emotional level is to ensure that he does not give away something accidentally. If your husband is connected to you emotionally, it means that you both will talk a lot and tell each other about your day or life in general. It will be difficult for your husband to do so if he is having an affair, as there will be many things which he will have to conceal or lie about. If he creates an emotional distance from you, it will act as a shield and stop him from spilling the beans.
3. Noticeable Change In His Attitude:
If your husband is having an affair, it will make him feel stressed out and can often show up in the way he reacts to you.
In his efforts to balance two relationships, he will create a situation where you end up fighting with him, and blame you for whatever is happening in your lives.
You will also notice a sudden shift in his overall attitude towards you. It is possible that your husband will suddenly turn picky and criticize you for almost everything that you do. He may not like the way you dress or speak, or he may feel that you have gained too much weight or are not curvy enough. Your husband may also have problems with the way you look after the house, with how much time you spend at work and how less time you devote to the house or to him, how less you earn or how much you spend, or even something as personal as your choice of friends. While your husband is having an affair, he will try to find reasons that led him away from you and to the new relationship.
4. He Turns Secretive:
Another prominent sign that your partner might be two-timing you is his secretive ways.
It is possible that your husband needs to take that call away from all the noise that is there in the background, but if he does it with every call, the chances are that he has reasons not to speak in front of you. Your husband will get up the moment his phone rings and head out to the other room or another part of the house. He may also look at his phone and let it ring, and not pick it up while you are around. It will be all the more noticeable if he was not like this earlier and had no problem in taking calls in front of you.
Your partner will lock up his phone with a password, which he will not share with you for obvious reasons. He might say that he has locked it to safeguard some important official emails or messages, but all that could be just a big lie. In case he is not locking up the phone, he will most likely delete his call records or text and other messages each time he checks his phone. Most phone users do not delete such records until the memory is full. So, if your partner removes the records, the chances are that he is trying to hide things from you.
He will close a window on his computer the moment you enter the room. He will lower his voice while talking over the phone if he sees you moving around.
Suspect him if he speaks softly into the phone and smiles or is conscious and looking around.
5. He Is Barely Around Anymore:
Your husband will suddenly give you a thousand reasons and explanations of why he has to be away from you for so long.
It is possible that your husband has genuine reasons to be away most of the time. But if it is something that begins suddenly, it could imply an affair outside marriage.
Your partner will invent several excuses to be away from you, or out of your home. He could tell you that he is on an urgent official work, that he is training hard at the gym or he has taken up a new hobby and needed to spend time away. Whatever may be the reason, it will always involve your husband being away from home and you. Initially, he will spend less time away from you but ones the other relationship gets stronger, the distance from you increases.

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